Having Trouble Changing? Here’s a Missing Piece
Are you trying to make a change? Have you tried and failed? Perhaps you’re missing a step. Oftentimes when trying to change, you’re waging an internal war with your old way, instead of trying to honor the old while implementing the new. An example would be: If you take pride in doing things yourself, but are now in a position in which you lead others and must delegate. Rewrite the internal battle, and take pride in being a great leader. You are still “doing,” but are using others to accomplish the task. This way, you honor the old way while moving forward with the new. It’s easier than trying to rewrite a part of yourself.
Read the full article here Change-The Missing Piece By Mario Sikora