Low Sex Drive?

If you’re experiencing a sexless marriage, know that you’re not alone. Many couples experience desire discrepancies, but there are still many myths that define how we think about our sex lives. One myth is that you should be able to “get in the mood” instantaneously with your partner. This is called “spontaneous desire,” and it’s something about 70% of men experience, and about 20% of women. If you don’t experience this very frequently, it doesn’t mean there is something wrong with you, or with your relationship. It could be that you might have “responsive desire,” meaning you need a kind of foreplay or sexual context to feel arousal.

Read the full article here: Low sex drive? 4 myths and some new thinking about this very common problem.